Question: I've read on your blog that you dress for the thrill, but you still like being a guy. Do you have trouble reconciling the two? They would seem to conflict.

Crossdressers dress in feminine clothes for various reasons. It is very common for some to get a sexual thrill from the clothes so I know I'm not alone. I have trouble reconciling the two at times. It comes and goes. The conflict comes as a sense of guilt because of societal restrictions of what and how a certain gender should behave. I reconcile the two buy rationalizing that the feelings are brought by society and not any high power overlord being and that although not considered 'normal' by society standards, dressing up is perfectly fine.  What is normal anyway? Do we have as complex humans pick male or female and fit some sort of mold? Sure at times I want to fit in but I also celebrate my individuality.

PS. People who go to Star Trek conventions are definitely not normal. That's a fact. ;-)

TG caption: check-again-dee-too

I know this TG caption doesn't make much sense at all on its own but I made it and I wanted to post it for the people who will understand it. I'm too lazy to fill everyone in on the background and it is really of no consequence in the grand scheme of our lives.

TG caption: tween revolt

Did you do what he did in this TG caption? When you were a kid and you revolted against your parents did you go out and sleep around with guys just to annoy your parents? Did you dye your hair? Did you wear the clothes that your parents didn't approve?