Question: If a guy always dreams about doing girly things for, and to, and on men-do you think he should have been born a woman? dee or is it just a good imagination?

I think it is hard to say since humans have such vivid and good imaginations. It would certainly be easier to be born a woman so you get to live all those things you fantasize be it sexual or nonsexual. On the other hand it may just be your mind exploring what would life be if... I love good adventures and new exciting things, the allure of being a woman is quite unattainable so it only makes it more appealing. Call it the forbidden fruit or gras is greener on the other side syndrome. At one time or another we all try to escape the real world.

PS. Is this Dee from the Haven? :-)